Tuesday 3 September 2013

A WARNING TO ALL PARENTS AND GUARDIANS!!!

Someone sent this to me and I felt it's necessary I share it with you all

•Warn your daughter never to sit
on anyone’s
laps no matter the relationship,
even uncles.

•Avoid getting dressed in front of
your child
once he/she is 2years old. Learn to
excuse
yourself.
•If you have to hire a house-help,
kindly take
them for HIV screening to
determine their
status, properly interview them
and make up
your mind to treat them well.
Although
Abiyamo does not really encourage
this
practice.
•Never allow any adult refer to
your new
born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’.
•Never tempt your husband with
your sister
or friend or else he’d say it's hers
and the
devil’s fault.
•Avoid unnecessary familiarity
with the
opposite sex and make sure you
take care of
your husband/wife yourself so as
not to lead
him into temptation.
•Whenever your child goes out to
play with
friends, make sure you look for a
way to find
out the kind of play they played
together, as
young people sexually abuse
themselves now.
•Never force your child to visit any
adult he/
she is not comfortable with and
also be
observant if your child becomes
fond of a
particular adult.
•Once a very lively child suddenly
becomes
withdrawn, you might need to
patiently ask a
lot of questions.
•If you don’t teach your children
about sex,
the society will teach them the
wrong values
and most likely, in very hard ways.
•It's always advisable you go
through any
new material like cartoons you buy
for them
before they start seeing it
themselves.
•Teach your 3-year-olds how to
wash their
private parts properly and warn
them never
to allow anyone, including you,
touch those
areas. Remember, charity begins at
home and
with YOU.
•Blacklist all materials you think
could
threaten the sanity of your child,
that is,
music, movies and musicians, and
let them
understand the value of standing
out of the
crowd.
•Once your child complains about
a particular
person, don’t keep quiet about it.
Take up the
case and show you can always defend him/her
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