Monday, 23 February 2015

An NDBer needs Urgent Advice

I would like to remain anonymous. I'm still a teenager,turning 18 soon.
   There's this guy I've been dating since ah was little,close to 6 yrs now,he's actually 20.Tho its an on-off relationship(I'm actually the one that's been cutting off the relationship).He loved me to a fault, always bugging me with calls and msgs, i loved him too.

   He broke up with me in december with no reason,but we reconciled back sometimes last week.But he's really changed.I'm the one doing the calling,he hardly calls,he makes our chats very short and even replies late.I had this feeling he didn't love me as much as before,I asked him,he said he does.We've never had sex,he's been asking for it but I always turn him down,not ready for it.Went to see him on Saturday,he took many pictures of us,yesterday morning I asked him to send me some,he told me he had deleted them all.That really got to me but I didn't act like.
  He ended the chat again and ever since,he hasn't called nor text.I'm confused and lost. What should I do??

7 comments:

  1. just 4get about him, u r a female so u v to maintain & respect ur self, 4 u to b CLASSIC/BIG GURL!

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  2. You're young why not focus on your future and career than putting yourself into a delima. Why going to a relationship that's going nowhere. What if he cajoles you and you end up sleeping with him and he now turns you down

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  3. He is not interested in you at all, he has another person or people, is that clear? now kindly pick up ur books and keep urself usefully busy, have a nice day.

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  4. U shall focus on ur education and 4get abt d boy

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  5. Hmm, life is strange. Pls heed the suggestions above and get on. Its well

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