Monday, 20 April 2015

NDB House: Help!! I Mistakenly Said YES


Dear NDBers, please I need serious advice...

 I and this guy are close friends, like over close they worry us sef. So on this fateful day oh, I, him and some of our other friends went out to different places to have fun.


 Just for this guy to indirectly shoot me... not this shoot me as per gun shooting o, he proposed to me, that I should marry him. Like play like pity I said YES.

 I didn't say yes because I love or want to marry him but because I didn't know how to say NO I front of our friends. So that they will not later be using bad eye to look at me.

But left to me I prefer us being friends Now the problem is that he gave me ring and I don't know how to tell him I can't marry him...

I don't know how our friends would take it. Worse of all I'm actually loving one of his friends.

 Please help me
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21 comments:

  1. Dora Cuzz20 April 2015 at 06:15

    Well...I'm in no position to tell u wah to do...
    Just gon spill my view
    You shouldn't go into any marriage u don't want to...especially not because of pity

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  2. Unknown20 April 2015 at 07:21

    My dear you are confuse,you are in a marriage that you dont like to be how do you expect me to believe this in the modern world.
    You even like one of his friend,i dont know were to start to advice you just go an see an astrologer.

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  3. Omogbolahan20 April 2015 at 07:53

    Lobatan, u said yes because of what his friends might say? Nah those friends wan help u marry am, u better return that ring sharp sharp.

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  4. David Iyke20 April 2015 at 09:21

    The truth is that you said yes because or your friends, then you have to accept the ring and marry him too because of your friend!QED!

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  5. Unknown20 April 2015 at 10:32

    Beta you tell him d truth Dan go into marriage with him. It won't be funny if una marry unaselves o!

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    1. Unknown20 April 2015 at 12:05

      I was expecting to read that your stupid Linda take note shit... Smh

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    2. pearls20 April 2015 at 14:26

      Hahhahahhaha Vry funi @bliq

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    3. pearls20 April 2015 at 14:28

      Hahhahahhaha Vry funi @bliq

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    4. iyke cindy20 April 2015 at 16:19

      Abi oooo@ bliq....so u can actually write a complete sentence without Linda take note @ Juliet?...smh....

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  6. Unknown20 April 2015 at 14:07

    I get that u didn't want to embarrass him by saying no: infront of all those peeps. But its a serious matter. So, u hv to buy courage from the market (=))º°˚˚˚°ºнaĦaнaº°˚˚˚°º‎​=))) to tell him the truth

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  7. Anonymous20 April 2015 at 14:47

    You a big ode

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  8. Unknown20 April 2015 at 15:28

    My dear jst dnt start wat u cant finish. Is beta u tel dis guy d truth n return d ring bak to him cos dis might lead to flirt in future if u eventually live wit him fully in his home. #nodollmomentpls#

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  9. Anonymous20 April 2015 at 16:01

    My dear, I was once in your shoes, he give ring in my family house, cos everyone in d family wanted us to marry, as per family frnd. I said yes on dt sport dn I took my time n Tink tru, I know it will not work , so I returned his ring back to him. N I told everyone it can't work between us. Do same, but b sure of wat u want, his frnd u r liking, dos he like you ? Make u no go allow confusion make u los ur husband ooooo. Pray to God to help you make right decision. All d best...

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  10. Unknown20 April 2015 at 16:35

    Niyi, Ur English needs some improvement!

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  11. Unknown20 April 2015 at 16:39

    Ello bae!!! Is dis a play play suntin u pple b friending on a friend friend level and naw ring af show u naw go an say yes wen u no mean it....Bae Return d ring o so dah u wee nuh go and kukuma be wearing white gown instead of Asoebi....as for d oda broda sha know aw e dey go b4 u wee naw go nd do anyhw nd geh ela o...

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  12. Unknown20 April 2015 at 16:40

    Ello bae!!! Is dis a play play suntin u pple b friending on a friend friend level and naw ring af show u naw go an say yes wen u no mean it....Bae Return d ring o so dah u wee nuh go and kukuma be wearing white gown instead of Asoebi....as for d oda broda sha know aw e dey go b4 u wee naw go nd do anyhw nd geh ela o...

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  13. Anonymous20 April 2015 at 17:59

    Keep saying YES for your friends, maybe on the alter you will also say "Because of my friends "I DO" "

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  14. Stynex20 April 2015 at 20:17

    Let me tell you how to go about it. Invite that same group of your friends for another round of drink. After some time go down on your knees and look him straight in the eyes and say, 'dear, can you please accept your ring back, I don't want to marry you again' Thanks for your understanding. Then get up and leave. . You when open your mouth say yes after you finish chopping the guy money, now you want our opinion, mscheeew

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  15. Unknown20 April 2015 at 20:19

    Did u guyz ever talked about loving each other? If no,that means u be buzu itokorododo

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  16. Unknown21 April 2015 at 02:26

    D journey is too far to start pitying nothing like love out of pity. If u don't love him u return the Goddamn ring if heaven will fall let it fall

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  17. Anonymous21 April 2015 at 13:06

    the truth is that she loves the guy but is pretending not to - nobody go tell you say monkey tail long until you see monkey. continue- as bitter leaf bitter reach e still get him sweetness for under-

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