The Virgin...

This article was written not because it's a love to read article amongst youths but because I believe it's a must read for everyone. 

Who is a virgin? 


A virgin is a person who has never had sexual intercourse with someone before. 
A girl who has never been penetrated or a guy who has never penetrated a girl before ( I think this grammar is simple enough). 


What's up with this topic? 

In Nigeria today, some guys respect virgin's a lot but people say it's hard to get one. 

Well, I believe strongly that every lady has her right, the right to do whatever she pleases to do,the right to keep her virginity till her wedding night or give it out before that night. 
Whatever she pleases to do,it's her decision and it's her right,but the thing is it's also better to do things wisely. 
As a lady,I believe before a girl opens her legs for any guy,she is likely to feel something strong for that guy. It's sad that some guys misuse and misunderstands this. 

Some believe sex is love,and others say relationship without sex,isn't just it. 
Thoughts differs,and every relationship has it's goal,everyone in a relationship is in it for a purpose which they must achieve. 
In this part of the world,it has been proven that most guys who date without sex are guys who are about to marry,with the range of about 27 years upwards. 
And while guys of about 26 years below have sex in their relationships. 
This statistics shows that,only most guys who are about to marry,date a girl without having sex with her,guess because he knows he will soon have sex with her,so while the rush...... 
But not all the men about to marry don't have sex though,the statistics just shows that most of the men that don't have sex while dating are between the range of 28 years above. HOW THE STATISTICS WAS GOTTEN,I DON'T KNOW.... 

Equally speaking, I always tell ladies to follow their mind,but make sure you follow your church mind... I mean that whitish clean part of your heart that has no corrupt files. That part will lead you right! 
Whatever you do,always remember that guys are smart and they have been blessed with sweet words to key every damn lady down. 
They have also been given the magical tricks straight from Eden's world to twist and intertwist every lady's heart. 

Ladies, here's my advice: always scale through,write the advantages and disadvantages of what you're about to go into..... if the disadvantage part is weighing more,please withdraw and have a rethink! And you shall see what the lord shall do in your life. 

This is all I have to say...thanks for reading. 

Presh Olives