Tuesday, 22 December 2015

Chronicles of blog visitors...

I'm a 22 years old but look way older than my age. Currently working and schooling too.
I have been in a relationship with a guy for 4 years, he was perfect and everything i ever wanted, but had a nasty temper.
It was the second year of our relationship he raised his hands on me.
We broke if off for a while, then came back together again after i forgave him.

He didn’t try it again until the next year. In all i have been hit more than 5 times by my boyfriend.
I have begged and pray for him to change, he promises and then falls back to his routine of getting angry easily over almost anything and using his fist to express his anger with him giving me the excuse that he grew up watching his dad hit his mum and that there’s no marriage which that doesn’t happen.
Now his proposing marriage, and i am at loss of what to do… I don't want to get married to a woman beater, but this is someone i love with all of my heart and have been with for 4years (my first relationship ever).
How do you stop loving someone who knows and accept all your faults? How and where do i start from? how do i function?
My friends advised me to be with him using the proverb; The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know.
Please what do i do, should i marry him all not?

22 comments:

  1. Marry him, den we can come for ur funeral

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  2. My dear, follow ur instinct. Some men are really very difficult to deal with after marriage.

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    1. The only instinct to follow is ur body. I dont think he has slapped her the manual reset slap that will make her think straight and run away


      Great Anonymous

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  3. Burial Alert,lozzzz.... sweetie follow your heart.

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  4. Burial Alert,lozzzz.... sweetie follow your heart.

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  5. If after knowing this much about him, and you are unable to change him for this 4 years,then i will not like to read another chronicle from you after the marriage!
    The devil you know is not in any way better than even the devil you don't know,talk-less of any angel!
    He is not yet ready to change his family custom!
    All the same----- Good-luck to you!

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  6. The truth is... It can only get worse. Be sincere about your instincts and do the needful. All the best.

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  7. you are just 22 and this is your first relationship, you still have alot to learn and there are still better men out there who will love you and you will love back. do not tie your entire life to a woman beater its not worth it. you are too young to start this way.

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  8. You can marry him but make sure you have a good hospital with standby ambulance cos you'll need it in your marriage. Also, prepare your will with each passing day cos you may have die earlier than expected

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  9. What kills most people is fear of the unknown...Yea he's gud buh there's a "best" somewhere,the earlier you quit,the better..He's not d only man God created,it will be worst wen get married to him..As for me I wish that for myself,libers and even my Sexy lindy

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  10. Don't marry him.
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  11. If you cannot change him before marriage, you can't change him ever! You think you love him now? Your eyes will clear after marriage. Devil is devil while angel is angel. Don't be deceived, so many God fearing men cannot beat their wife. The world is full of them

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  12. If you cannot change him before marriage, you can't change him ever! You think you love him now? Your eyes will clear after marriage. Devil is devil while angel is angel. Don't be deceived, so many God fearing men cannot beat their wife. The world is full of them

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  13. Quit before it is too lat (death)


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  14. Dont quit o.... for your good and the sake of love.... Flee!!!

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  16. really you are asking what to do. choose a casket and write your obituary. you don't want them picking out a photo that's not flattering so you can pick that out as well. then marry the love of your life

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